A grieving husband has been refused permission to put a headstone on his wife's grave - because it is black.
Danny Michel wants to commemorate his late wife with a granite stone - but the rules say any gravestones must be made from material sourced in Jersey.
It is almost a year since the death of his late wife, and Danny says he has not been allowed to properly grieve.
He has happy memories of his 35-year marriage to Violet and he wants to give her a fitting tribute, but choosing her gravestone has caused him nothing but misery.
Danny said: "I was told it had been rejected because it was black and then I've been trying to think about speaking to family and all sorts going on since then and we've been seeing what to do and having discussions and about a fortnight ago it was rejected again."
However, Les Quennevais Cemetery actually already has 13 black headstones.
Danny has pointed out some of the black headstones and said that he would like similar. He would like a black stone, with the centre etched out to reveal a greyish colour of stone. He says he would like this because it looks like a broken heart, with Violet's name on one side and the other would be for when he is buried.
It all comes down to what is written in the Parish Rate's Book. There are rules and regulations to determine what kind of stones are allowed in cemeteries and it reads: 'monuments should be made of natural stone such as is traditionally used in Jersey buildings or stone closely similar in colour and texture'.
So that excludes black granite, which is not a natural material in Jersey.
The man responsible for refusing the gravestone is St Brelades constable Mike Jackson - so why has he allowed other black headstones in the cemetery?
He explained: "Those earlier stones were granted on the basis of the previous practice but I soon after received complaints from the public about the black gravestones and thought the most practical solution and pragmatic solution was to stick rigorously to the regulations."
http://www.channelonline.tv/channelonline_jerseynews/displayarticle.asp?id=493887So probably the most used Government spin line ever used when they have been caught out…………… the public complained Yawn, yes the public complained about GST 19,000 to be pretty exact, yet the states did not listen. Thirteen headstones are black already and so what’s the problem?
Mike Jackson has completely lost the plot, this is the real and only problem listening to desk bound non jobs rather than real people in the real world.
At the next election let any one stand for election for the Constables seat. Given this sort of dribble they really could do no worse.
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